Research shows that children who feel they can talk to their parents about drugs will put off or avoid taking them more than those who do not.
There are risks. And your child may not have thought of all of them. When you calmly talk through the situation with your child, you could outline the following possible dangers:
Amphetamines (speed), cannabis, ecstasy, LSD and magic mushrooms can sometimes make the user feel tense and panicky. If this happens:
Heroin, tranquillisers and misuse of gases, glues and aerosols can make the user feel very drowsy. If this happens:
If a young child brings up the subject, ask gently what they know about 'drugs'. Tell them they can come to you whenever they have questions about drugs and you will answer. Tell them to let you know if anyone ever offers them drugs.
When they reach secondary school, what your child's friends think, do and say becomes more important to them. Don't try to be 'cool' when you discuss drugs with them. This is a quick way to lose their trust.
Several national organisations can provide help and information on drugs and drug abuse:
Talk to Frank offers free and confidential advice about drugs, all day, every day, to anyone: children, parents or just the curious. The helpline is available in 120 different languages and a translator will be available if necessary, telephone 0800 77 66 00. The website has masses of information and tips on how to deal with drugs and can refer you to local drugs services.
Release provides a helpline offering advice on drug use and legal issues Monday to Friday 10:00 am - 5:30 pm. Telephone 020 7729 9904.
Adfam national supports family groups working with communities throughout the UK, telephone 020 7553 7640. The Adfam website provides a searchable database with contact information for local support groups.
Locally, your GP can refer you to local drugs counselling agencies. Your child’s school should have a policy on drug education and managing drug-related incidents. The Community Liaison Department of your local police may be able to answer your questions about the local drug scene, and the law.